Role Models

There are many people I admire but few I have as role models. I’m picky in this matter and rightly we all should when it comes to people we place on any pedestal.

First and foremost as you may have guest is my father who is the example of fortitude and ingenuity. That man had a never say die attitude and his ability to create something out of nothing is legendary. 41 years ago this month the lord took him from us and truly I miss him and his words of wisdom which are ingrained into my heart, my mind, soul, and butt.

My Mother is second to no one…she is right there a long side my father as most respected and admired. She sacrificed her life to her children, gave birth to 13 kids, and loved and cared for each and every one of us no matter what. She is the star of loyalty, devotion, strength, and most of all Love. She was taking from us all too soon, 16 years ago next month.   

My brothers without whom I would have never learned to be a smart ass.

My sisters without whom I would have never learned the skills of house conduct, and house hold chores.

Then there are my friends, without whom I would have no stories to hide from my children.

If you look back on your life as well, you will find many which you admired for one reason or another. As far as me and my walk only a handful I found as role models…someone who I can point to and say, follow this example. It is not because they achieved Worldly greatness. Rather, it was the way they conducted their lives. It was the way they treated others and Loved.

I am blessed to have known so many people in my life.

I’ve walked down many paths.

Some I wish I hadn’t. 

Some of these I’ve chosen, and others I feel I was led.

If I listed all those who contributed to my life the list would go on forever.

But the list of role models would be short.

I hope that in some way I’m a role model to someone.

I hope that in someway I was able to give back what I’ve been given.

I hope too that you are a role model giving to someone a gift that they can hold within for a life time.

 

 

 

 

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Thorns

There was no hint of beauty
in the crown of thorns He wore,
as His sacred head was bleeding
and the crowd cried out for more;
No loveliness in Jesus
as He hung on Calvary’s tree,
but the cross He bore
and the thorns He wore
make Him beautiful to me.

When the thorns that I encounter
pierce my heart with grief and pain,
I will lift my eyes to Jesus;
He’ll renew my strength again.
As I lean upon my Jesus
He will make my trials grow dim;
and my heartfelt plea
and my bended knee
make me beautiful to Him.

Poem by Connie Faust

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Valentines Day…is for Kissing…..

Valentines Day...is for Kissing.....

The Kiss (An Anthology of Love and Other Close Encounters [Kindle Edition]

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Rain

Rain

When I was six or seven there came a sudden and dramatic thundershower one hot summers day, lots of lightening, thunder, and torrential rain. I was caught outside in it. But I was not scared. I was filled with a sense of awe and wonderment.

Never before had I seen such things. The dark clouds swirled, billowing in great puffs like sooty cotton balls. Water rushed past me, gutters overflowed, leaves tumbled through the air like a flock of birds, lightening streaked across the sky like blood veins, wind whirled and time itself slowed as small trees bent and bowed their tips to the splendor of it all.

I took shelter next to back of our small house, beneath the soffit. I could have gone in at anytime but I found nothing to be shaken about. At no time did I feel threatened.

After the rain and wind died down, I stepped from the house and looked up at the sky as Gods sunny rays cut through the darkness. High in the sky I saw birds circling and even further up more birds. In the thick bushes near our house sparrows darted out and zoomed into the woods. Rabbits scampered from beneath my brother’s old car. The air smelled fresh and filled me as I inhaled deep.

I was soaked, but never noticed.

The back door opened and my mother stood perplexed and demanded I get in the house. I did as I was told and received a loving pat on the rear and a scolding for being out in the storm.

As I look back on this I ask myself, how many storms have I gone through? How many times have I witnessed the rain and thunder, overflowing gutters, and bent trees of not just natural storms but of life’s storms? I can honestly say I did not handle a lot of them well. I was enraged, saddened, perplexed, bewildered, hurt, and ravaged both physically and mentally.

Wisdom they say is life’s lessons learned through trail and error and not sheltered from the storm. Others may argue that wisdom knows when to come in from the storm. How does one know a storm unless ones been through it?

I know nothing of wisdom. I do know this I’ve been protected under nothing more than a soffit all of my life. After every storm the skies opened and in my mind new thoughts soared as the birds flew high in the clouds that day. New fresh feelings filled my heart as the fresh clean air had, and just like the animals and birds who were sheltered came out from hiding I must as well.

The little boy who once found storms fascinating still does. He still likes the thunder and rain, and wind. Life storms he can do without, especially now that he is supposedly older and wiser.